Why Gen Z is Tired of Stanning and Ready to Snark Instead

Stan Culture Isn't Dead, It Just Grew Up

If you were a teen in the 2010s, there’s a good chance your internet life revolved around stan Twitter. You had a bias, a fancam folder, and a digital army ready to drag anyone who disrespected your fave.

But in 2025, Gen Z is rewriting the rules of what it means to be a fan. And the hottest trend right now? Anti-fandom.

Instead of endlessly defending celebs, creators, or franchises, Gen Z is bonding over shared annoyance. Not in a mean-spirited way, but in that iconic Gen Z style, ironic, self-aware, and full of memes.

From Stanning to Slandering, Lovingly?

On Reddit, subreddits like r/popculturechat and r/Instagramreality are absolutely thriving. These aren’t traditional fan spaces. They’re snarky, critical, sometimes savage, but also oddly wholesome.

You’ll find posts like:

“Why does every influencer mansion look like an abandoned dentist’s office?”
“Can we talk about the weird parasocial vibes in that latest podcast episode?”

And the replies? Thousands of Gen Z users dissecting pop culture with the intensity of a college seminar, but way funnier.

Meanwhile on TikTok, users are making duet videos where they ironically react to influencers’ over-edited skincare routines or fake-deep podcast quotes. And it’s not even that people hate these creators. They just find joy in clowning them a little.

Because sometimes, bonding over a collective “ehhh, not for me” hits harder than screaming “OMG SLAY QUEEN” into the void.

Anti-Fandom is the New Community

One of the biggest things Gen Z craves is authentic connection. We’re done with over-curated fandoms that demand 24/7 loyalty. Anti-fandoms, weirdly enough, are offering more freedom.

You don’t have to love everything. You don’t have to perform excitement. You can show up, scroll, laugh at the cringe, and log off.

These communities say:

• It's okay to outgrow a celebrity
• It’s okay to laugh at something dumb without being labeled a hater
• It’s okay to say “this gives the ick” and still be a chill, cool person

It’s not about canceling or tearing people down. It’s about engaging critically with the pop culture we’re drowning in. Because, let’s be honest, a lot of it is manufactured nonsense. And Gen Z sees right through it.

Meme Over Mayhem

Back in the day, fandom wars were brutal. Directioners vs. Beliebers. Barbz vs. Swifties. There were literal timelines of online beef.

Now, Gen Z is turning pop culture critique into a meme fest.

• Screenshotting the most unhinged celeb captions
• Playing red flag bingo during podcast interviews
• Creating fake movie posters for influencer scandals

It’s not rage. It’s camp.

Gen Z isn’t fueled by blind adoration or hate. It’s about the in-between. That space where something is cringey and iconic, problematic and hilarious, entertaining and exhausting.

We don’t stan or cancel. We observe and roast.

The Rise of "Soft Disdain"

Let’s talk about a specific Gen Z superpower, soft disdain. It’s not vicious. It’s not even angry. It’s that subtle mix of side-eye, shrug, and “lol this again?”

Anti-fandoms thrive on soft disdain. You’ll see comments like:

“Every week she reinvents herself and it’s always the same girl in a different hat.”
“This podcast thinks it's dropping philosophy when it's just common sense with a ring light.”

It’s snark with soul. Less tear them down, more I’m tired but amused.

There’s power in not taking things too seriously. Especially in a world that constantly demands hot takes and stan loyalty.

A Healthier Kind of Pop Culture Engagement

The truth? Gen Z might be the most media literate generation yet. We know how PR cycles work. We know what it means when a celeb suddenly drops a breakup album the same week they launch a skincare brand.

Anti-fandoms let us engage with media without the pressure to either love or loathe. We can acknowledge the absurdity while still staying in the loop.

It’s not apathy. It’s agency.

You’ll still catch us quoting iconic lines. We still cry during finales. But we’re also rolling our eyes at the staged drama and fake raw moments.

We want content that earns our attention, not demands it.

So, Are Stans Cancelled?

Not exactly. Stanning still exists. But it’s evolved.

Now, you’ll see someone say:

“She’s problematic but that bridge in her song? A masterpiece.”
“He gives the ick, but I’ll still watch every vlog. For science.”

It’s love with boundaries. Fandom with nuance. And yes, a little snark.

Gen Z is leading a cultural shift where you can enjoy the spectacle without selling your soul to it. You can scroll, giggle, roast, and move on.

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