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Up at 3 A.M. Again? Here Are 18 Low-Key Tricks That'll Get You Back to Sleep Without Touching Your Phone
Middle-of-the-night wakeups suck—especially when your brain goes into overdrive and your bed suddenly feels like a battleground. If you’ve been lying there spiraling about tomorrow’s to-dos, awkward texts, or literally nothing at all, you’re not alone. The good news? You can train your mind and body to slide back into dream mode.
Drawing from expert insights and real-life proven methods, these strategies are Gen Z-friendly ways to fall back asleep faster—backed by experts, chill vibes, and absolutely zero scrolling.
1. Recreate Calming Soundscapes from Memory
One surprisingly effective strategy I use when I wake up in the middle of the night is what I call "auditory anchoring"—silently recalling the exact sound of a moment when I felt deeply calm.
For me, it's the quiet hum of a summer night in Northern Michigan—crickets, breeze through the trees, and a distant lake lapping at the shore. I don't visualize it. I listen for it in my memory. I let my brain reconstruct the layers of sound, one by one. Within a few minutes, my nervous system starts responding as if I'm back in that space: my breath slows, my jaw releases, and my mind stops scanning.
Why it works: As someone who studies sleep performance, I've found that sensory memory—especially sound—has a unique ability to bypass the analytical brain. Unlike visualizations, which can sometimes spiral into planning or overthinking, recreating a calming soundscape from memory gives the brain something passive, rhythmic, and emotionally grounding to anchor to. It's almost like tricking your nervous system into a parasympathetic "lullaby."
This technique reminds me that falling back asleep isn't about effort—it's about re-creating the conditions where safety and softness feel familiar. And sometimes, those conditions live inside us already—we just have to tune in.
Justine Luchini, Founder & Operator, Thirdzy
2. Use Strategic Pillow Placement for Comfort
Often, you'll wake up simply because your body isn't in the right position or you didn't get the proper support while sleeping. A few extra pillows or cushions can really help in this case. I usually place one behind my back or even under my knees and immediately feel much more comfortable. That little extra support takes away any pressure or discomfort that might be keeping me awake.
I've also noticed that it makes a difference when the pillows I use are made from the right kind of foam. Softer, high-resilience natural foam adapts better without flattening out or retaining heat. So I always keep a few different kinds of pillows around me. You can grab them when you need them most.
Mike Handelsman, CEO & Owner, FoamOrder
3. Perform an Alphabet Body Scan
I use an "alphabet body scan" when I wake at night, relaxing body parts in A-Z order instead of head-to-toe. Beginning with ankles, moving to biceps, then calves, I proceed through the entire alphabet.
This method came to me after noticing my wellness clients overlooked "hidden" tension areas like the jaw or the space between shoulder blades. The alphabetical progression naturally includes these often-missed spots.
It requires just enough mental engagement to redirect racing thoughts without becoming stimulating. The non-sequential order prevents my brain from moving through the practice automatically.
When I encounter challenging letters like Q or X, the mild problem-solving creates a gentle mental shift that typically guides me back to sleep before completing the entire sequence.
Clara Whitlow, Women’s Wellness Coach and Sex Educator, Clara Whitlow
4. Practice Mental Bookmarking for Racing Thoughts
I used to lie awake overthinking at 3 AM—replaying work decisions, future plans, or sometimes just random thoughts. What has helped me most? A strategy I now call "mental bookmarking."
When I wake up and my brain kicks into overdrive, I gently tell myself:
"Not now. This is important, but I'll deal with it in the morning. Bookmark it."
Then I focus on slow, deep breathing—in for 4, hold for 7, out for 8—while mentally repeating one calming phrase, like "I'm safe, I'm calm."
This works because it stops the mental spiral without forcefully pushing the thoughts away. It gives my brain permission to rest, not resist.
It's not foolproof, but more nights than not, it helps me fall back asleep in under 10 minutes—without checking my phone or pacing the room.
If sleep anxiety is something you struggle with, try giving your thoughts a place to "wait"—your nervous system will thank you.
Gaurav Gupta, CTO & Head of Marketing, Allo Health
5. Engage in Breathwork Without Phone Use
As a holistic psychiatrist, one of the most effective strategies I use when I wake up in the middle of the night is breathwork and meditation in complete darkness—without ever reaching for my phone. I've trained my nervous system to recognize this practice as a signal for safety and rest. Instead of checking the time or scrolling (which activates the brain and disrupts melatonin), I'll lay still, place one hand on my chest and one on my abdomen, and focus on slow, rhythmic breathing—usually a 4-7-8 pattern.
Sometimes I'll repeat a calming mantra or visualize grounding imagery. This works because it soothes the vagus nerve, down-regulates stress hormones, and invites the body back into a parasympathetic state. We teach patients that sleep isn't just about sedation—it's about signaling safety. Your mind won't rest until your body feels safe enough to let go. Holistic tools like breathwork don't sedate you—they restore your rhythm.
Dr. Sam Zand, CEO/FOUNDER, Anywhere Clinic
6. Avoid Checking the Time When Awake
Resist the temptation to check the clock.
When you're awake, it's natural to feel tempted to glance at the clock. However, once you're aware of the time, you're much more likely to start calculating how many hours you've slept or how little time remains until your alarm rings. This awareness often triggers worry or stress about whether you'll feel rested, creating mental tension and making it harder to fall back asleep.
That's why deliberately keeping yourself unaware of the actual time helps you stay mentally clear and emotionally neutral. It prevents runaway thoughts or anxiety about sleep duration, and this reduced agitation allows your mind and body to ease naturally back into restful sleep.
Bayu Prihandito, Psychology Consultant, Life Coach, Founder, Life Architekture
7. Anchor to Stillness and Accept Wakefulness
One of the things I do when I wake up in the middle of the night is what I call "anchoring to stillness." Instead of fighting wakefulness or distracting myself, I tune in to the quietest sensation I can find—often the hum of the heater, the weight of the blanket on my chest, or the beat of my heart. I don't try to fall asleep; I just rest in stillness and tell myself, "This moment is enough."
Why it works: It gets me out of problem-solving mode ("Why am I awake?" "How long until morning?") and into pure presence. Most insomnia, I've found, isn't from being awake—it's from resisting being awake. When I anchor to stillness and let go of the need to sleep, my nervous system settles naturally. It's like reverse psychology for the brain.
This is rooted in mindfulness, but it's not about "doing" anything—just observing, accepting, and softening. Sleep often follows as a side effect of just being okay with now.
If you're someone whose mind lights up the moment you wake, I'd suggest trying presence over distraction. Sometimes, stillness is the best lullaby.
Sovic Chakrabarti, Director, Icy Tales
8. Change Rooms Briefly to Reset
I get out of bed and change rooms. Not forever, just for five minutes. I sit somewhere dark and quiet with zero stimulation and let my nervous system reset. No phone, no light, no thoughts to finish. I do not try to sleep—I just stop trying to do anything at all. For some reason, the reset triggers a hard stop on the loop. I go back to bed, and within three minutes, I am asleep again.
I think it works because it breaks the "failure to fall asleep" loop without feeding it. Staying in bed and tossing makes you a participant. Getting up breaks the script. It stops the timeline where your brain keeps replaying why you are still awake. The trick is to treat sleep like a background process, not a task. That mental reset is the difference between thirty minutes of tossing and lights out in five.
Patrick Beltran, Marketing Director, Ardoz Digital
9. Visualize Boring Tasks to Quiet Mind
I visualize something boring whenever I want to go back to sleep in the middle of the night. Not relaxing. Not peaceful. Just flat-out boring. That's what works for me. I usually go with folding towels. I picture opening the dryer, grabbing one towel, smoothing it out corner to corner, folding it in half, then again, stacking it neatly. Then I repeat that with the next one. Same pace, same motion. I'm not trying to speed through it. I'm trying to stall my brain.
Sometimes I switch it up and imagine walking slowly through a grocery store aisle. No list, no urgency, just walking and scanning each item on the shelf like I've got all the time in the world. It doesn't matter what the product is. It could be canned beans or cereal boxes. The point is that the task is dull enough to keep my thoughts from going into overdrive but just focused enough to block out the noise in my head.
This works for me because it gives my brain something low-stimulus to lock onto. It keeps me from spiraling into overthinking or watching the clock. I'm not trying to force sleep. I'm just keeping things steady until my brain gives up and shuts off on its own. It works more often than not, and I don't need apps, sounds, or anything else to pull it off. Just a couple of boring mental loops and I'm out.
James Myers, Sales Director and Office Manager, VINEVIDA
10. Imagine Writing Worries on Foggy Window
When I find myself awake in the middle of the night, I imagine I'm making a to-do list on a foggy window. I mentally note down any worries or anxious thoughts, then visualize them disappearing, as if they're wiped away by steam. This exercise helps me address what's bothering me without needing to pick up my phone or notebook. I discovered this technique during a very hectic time at work, while preparing for a new product launch, and I found myself unable to sleep even at 3 a.m. It's effective because it gives my mind a sense of order and relief, without making me more awake. The soothing image also connects to calm memories, which aids in helping me fall back asleep.
Josh Miller, CEO, Clean Carpets
11. Combine Breath Counting with Body Scanning
I've had my fair share of sleepless nights—especially during times when I was scaling my company and juggling way too many moving parts in my head.
One strategy that has consistently helped me fall back asleep is breath counting combined with body scanning.
I lie flat, close my eyes, and start slowly counting my breaths—one, two, three...—and with each number, I shift my attention to a different part of my body. For example, with "one," I relax my forehead; with "two," I relax my jaw; with "three," I drop my shoulders. It's simple but surprisingly powerful.
I think it works for me because I'm naturally wired to stay "on"—always thinking, planning, solving.
This technique pulls me back into my body instead of my thoughts. I'm not fighting to fall asleep; I'm just drifting into calm, one breath at a time.
It doesn't work instantly every time, but I swear it shortens the tossing and turning. It also makes me feel like I'm at least resting, not stressing.
Jason Wong, GENERAL MANAGER, Rosedwell machinery ltd
12. Stay in Bed and Practice Relaxing Breaths
The best way to fall asleep when you wake up in the middle of the night is to just stay where you are. Maybe have a glass of water or go to the restroom if you need to. But you must not pick up your phone and think, "I'll tire myself a bit until I feel sleepy again." It's a terrible idea, and many of us fall for it. Just stay in bed in a comfortable position and do a simple breathing exercise to relax. Breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, and exhale slowly for 8 seconds. What makes this exercise effective is that it shifts your focus away from random thoughts.
Waking up in the middle of the night is an annoying experience by itself. Racing thoughts are going to make matters worse for you. So, you must focus on staying calm. The breathing pattern helps activate the parasympathetic nervous system, telling your body it's safe to relax. It's a simple activity compared to other tactics, such as counting tasks or using certain apps that help you fall asleep. You just need to breathe, and trust me, it works like a charm.
Syed Balkhi, Founder, WPBeginner
13. Use Micro-Sinking and Ambient Anchoring Techniques
One strategy that works REALLY WELL for me is what I call micro-sinking. It's essentially imagining my body slowly sinking into a soft surface, inch by inch. This visualization seems to flip a physical switch—my muscles unclench, and I stop shifting around. Before I know it, I've either drifted off or gotten close enough that sleep pulls me back in.
Another technique I employ is ambient anchoring. I keep a specific sound recording on hand—like distant thunder or soft footsteps on gravel—that I only ever use during nights like this. My brain starts associating that sound with drifting off. It's not just white noise—it's familiar, but not too predictable, so it gives my attention something gentle to follow without activating it too much.
Matt Bowman, Founder, Thrive Local
14. Try the 4-7-8 Breathing Technique
When I wake up during the night and can't fall back asleep, I use a breathing method called the 4-7-8 technique. Here's how you can do it: Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds, hold your breath for 7 seconds, and then exhale slowly through your mouth for 8 seconds. This technique helps calm and relax the body. It triggers the parasympathetic nervous system, which lowers stress and anxiety that might be keeping you awake.
I find this technique helpful because it distracts me from anxious thoughts or sounds around me. Focusing on my breathing helps calm my mind and body, making it easier for me to fall back asleep.
Samuel Davis, Owner, London Gardners
15. Do a Brain Dump to Clear Mind
One strategy that genuinely helps me fall back asleep is doing a "brain dump" on my phone or a notepad by the bed. If I wake up with a racing mind, I jot down whatever's swirling around—whether it's an article idea, a to-do list item, or just a random thought I can't shake.
I think it works because it tells my brain, "Okay, you don't have to hold onto this right now—we've saved it." That small act of release helps me mentally shut the door on the thought so I can actually rest. It's like decluttering your mind the way you'd declutter a messy desk—it clears the space for sleep to settle back in.
Steve Nicastro, Managing Editor, Real Estate Witch
16. Listen to Ambient Noise Without Screen
One strategy that works well for me is listening to low-volume ambient noise, like soft rainfall or ocean waves, through a sleep-focused audio app. I avoid checking my phone screen—instead, I use a preset sleep playlist with a timer so it fades out gradually. This kind of passive auditory cue distracts my brain from spiraling thoughts without requiring active engagement. It recreates the calming background noise that often helps initiate sleep in the first place. Over time, it's become a signal to my body and mind that it's time to unwind, making it easier to slip into rest again without frustration.
Naima Ch, Marketing Head and SEO Specialist, Morse Code Translator
17. Get Up Briefly to Reset Sleep Mindset
When I wake up in the middle of the night, I never try to force myself back to sleep. That's the worst thing you can do. I used to lie there staring at the ceiling, telling myself I must fall asleep right now. It never worked. Being a dad of a newborn didn't make it easier.
These days, if I wake up, I simply get out of bed. I walk to the kitchen, pour a glass of water, and sit quietly for about five minutes. No phone. No distractions. This might sound strange, but it completely resets my brain.
The secret lies in abandoning all attempts to sleep. Actively trying to sleep only increases my frustration. But by physically leaving the bed and breaking that cycle of tension, I trick my brain into believing sleep matters less. This works because my body receives a clear signal that no pressure exists to fall asleep immediately. That pressure creates the entire problem.
I've experimented with many techniques (deep breathing exercises, counting sheep - everything) but simply shifting my attention away from sleep works best. It boils down to mindset. When you stop stressing about sleep, it returns naturally when your body feels ready.
Milosz Krasinski, International SEO Consultant, Owner, Chilli Fruit Web Consulting
18. Read a Boring Book on Dimmed Kindle
I always keep one incredibly boring novel on my Kindle that I have zero interest in finishing. If I wake up and can't fall asleep, I start reading it, and it's almost guaranteed that within two pages, I've fallen back asleep. I keep the setting on dark mode, with the contrast turned down as low as it can go, so there's little ambient light that would keep me awake.
Lisa Steele, Author/blogger, Fresh Eggs Daily
Keep It Low Pressure
Falling back asleep isn’t about forcing it—it’s about creating an environment where your mind feels safe, unpressured, and chill. Whether it’s visualizing boring tasks or counting body parts like alphabet soup, the key is gentle distraction, nervous system calm, and zero pressure to “perform” sleep.
Waking up doesn’t have to ruin your night. Just arm yourself with these quiet little hacks and give your body what it needs to drift back down.
Keep your sleep game strong with more Gen Z wellness vibes from Woke Waves Magazine. 😴✨
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